Sex, teachers, students, and parents; where are the morals
by: ij1889
So Eddie shared a link with us showing hot teachers that slept with students, leading into a huge debate of how wrong it is, most people but the burden on the teachers shoulders, well let’s see who is there to blame.
Why do we all blame the teachers for this action? Is it because they slept with a minor? I’ll give them that, it is very wrong to have sex with someone who is alot younger than you, especially during the development stages, but is a person at 14 all that innocent? Once 13 or 14, kids are out there getting it on and its very common (I was 14 only 4 years ago so I know what goes on) do we call people innocent who are doing drugs, having sex, joining gangs, and shit like that? Just the other day I overheard a conversation while in the pool of a girl (couldn’t have been more than 15) talking about friends with benefits and the shit they do, WHY DO WE STILL CALL MINORS INNOCENTS??? America needs to adopt another way of thinking and judging, we are to influenced by the media (that’s my next blog). so why do we still blame the teachers? Is it because if the students don’t sleep with them get bad grades? If a teacher told you “if you don’t sleep with me you fail, but if you do, you pass with flying colors” a person has 3 clear choices.
Choice A. sleeps with the teacher and gets the A
Choice B. walks away and fails
Choices C. walk away and report the incident.
Many don’t see the consequences from choice A and it seems the easiest way to do it, so most choose choice A, now with that being said, the students are making the choice to sleep with the teachers, so we should not blame the teachers 100%, it should be about fifty fifty now, because not only the teacher is getting involved but also the student is conscious of this decision.
Parents say to the media “I’m shocked don’t know how this could have happened”, hmm… I know how, it’s called morals lady, we always teach our children not to get into the candy van with a stranger, and it’s true, we should be reinforcing these topics, but we should also update new methods of raising our children, imagine if the cops drove Ford model Ts with stock engines from the 20’s, any car now and days could easily beat it, so what do they do, they upgrade to keep up with technology and criminals. Parents should also do so, it only makes sense, also, parents should teach their children to question authority in a good way, and not believe everything a person says, it’s great to have the “ no sir, yes sir, yes mam, no mam” mentality but at some point we have to draw the line and not go with everything a person says or ask you to do, parents need to teach their children basic principles and education them on how to be a human being, and should install good morals in children so that they will make good choices whenever we are not there to guide them through rough times, if you as a parent fail to teach morals to your kids then you fail as a parent, and now the blame is 40% teachers fault, 40% students fault, and 20% the parents fault.
Dave Chappelle does a stand up act that makes a great point and goes along with my topic “you’re not asking yourself the real question that America needs to decide once and for all, and that question is, how old is 15 really? No that’s a good question, I’m not saying that a person is going to be as smart as they are going to be at 15, that’s not what I’m saying man, but I am saying, 15 to me is old enough to decide whether or not you want to be pissed on, I mean that’s me, if you can’t make a decision like that when your 15 you just give up mother… because life is way harder than that, I make way harder decisions than that, if you don’t want to be pissed on than just get the fuck out of the way, it’s not even a decision, if I start peeing on the front row, they are not going to have to calculate and think “how do I feel about this? Am I okay with this?” no they just move, you can do that at 15.”
We should not prosecute the teachers as we do now(it reminds me of the salaam witch trials), jail time to me is too harsh, I agree with taking away the privilege of teaching but jail time is tooooo fucked up in my opinion. We as human beings are always quick enough to point the finger at someone else other than ourselves, and pretend like we didn’t have anything to do with it and we are perfect, no we are not, they all each have the blame for this, let’s stop blaming everyone other than you (or ourselves), and start realizing that we are involved in this to, we should not just throw all the burden on a single person, but see what else caused this and who else is involved. I saw a report that the a teachers husband shoot the student that was coming in through the window at midnight to fuck the teacher, there are many things messed up with this picture, were is the responsibility of the parent letting the kid go out at 12 at night on a school night? The student’s common sense of breaking into a house for some poon? The responsibility of the teacher of the wellbeing of the husband, and student (lover)? To me these are the real questions that should be answered and be looked on to see how the failure of responsibility brought death to the student, who is to blame? The student, the parents, and the teacher are to be blamed.
I am tired of hearing all these accusations against one person when there is more than one person to be held responsible for the actions.
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