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When we "mess with your head," it doesn't necessarily mean it's in a negative way (though it really depends on the person, of course--you'd probably know if she was not that great of a person to begin with and definitely don't have to worry about that with Taya). A lot of times the end result of us "messing" with you benefits both.
Hehe.... just wait until the next time you hear a doorbell! You'll zone out for a few seconds, and when you come back around, everyone around you will be laughing their asses off!