Alright here's where I'm at, I ordered a PIC programmer as stated above, this weekend I'm going to see about taking the 3rd light apart to see how much room we have to work with, then try and make a decision as to what LED's to use and how many.
At that point I'm going to pickup / order all the parts to build a prototype. I also have to learn how to Program a PIC so this could take a while, but I want to do it for the hell of it.
If / when I manage to get something working that ya'll like I'd be happy to share the program / schematic and program the Microcontrollers - maybe even build a few, however it may be faster to see about spek1098 having a talk with his EE to prototype it out.